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Tortie's avatar

This is very inconsistent with my personal experience with Asperger's. I was diagnosed as a teen back when it was still a diagnosis that was given in the US, and as an adult I feel the diagnosis describes me very well.

First, the verbosity you describe as being typical of autism is, well, not. It is true that a lot of type 1 autistics or aspies are hyperlexic. But a lot of us think more in images and nebulous concepts--famously, Temple Grandin. Non-famously, me; and I have been a tremendous bookworm both as a child and at present. I have little to no internal monologue unless I exert conscious effort to put my thoughts into words. Beyond that, type 2 and type 3 autistics commonly have difficulties with language and speech, to the point of being selectively or entirely nonverbal.

Second, re: detecting lies. Most people vastly overestimate their ability to identify when someone is lying. On average, trying to tell when someone is lying doesn't give you any more accurate information than flipping a coin. (Secondary source: the American Psychological Association, here: https://www.apa.org/monitor/2016/03/deception) I find it laughable when someone suggests that I should rely more on gut instinct and nonverbal cues than on factual context and theory of mind to identify whether someone is being motivated to lie to me.

Third, as an aspie, reading fiction helped me develop better theory of mind, and helped me develop skills to better relate to other people. Obviously real people don't function quite like book characters, but trying to tease out the intentions and motivations of fictional characters was good low-stakes practice for interpreting the more complexee, nuance, and consequential information I come across in real life.

Finally--something i do agree with you on. The digital age, and digital entertainment, certainly do distance us from out direct experience of our bodies. It would not surprise me if the average teen today had less kinesthetic awareness and worse vestibular & proprioception processing (common traits of autistic people!) than a teen in, say, the 60s. Put more broadly, I do think it's plausible that being extremely bookish exacerbates the motor problems associated with ASD. For that reason we could all do with some more yoga or team sports or whatever activity catches one's interest.

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Matthew's avatar

Yes, I liken it to consuming endless amounts of food, without taking the time (or having the capacity) to digest.

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